Why We Honor Our Leaders
(Romans 13:1-7)
Imagine a world where everyone did whatever they wanted. No rules. No one in charge. People could take things that did not belong to them. They could say mean things and never get in trouble. It would be chaos.
God knows that people need order. That is why He puts leaders in charge. In the book of Romans, the apostle Paul wrote to Christians living in the city of Rome. Rome was a huge city with many people. The Roman emperor was the most powerful ruler in the whole world. Some of the Christians in Rome did not like the Roman government. The rulers were not always kind to them. But Paul told them something surprising.
Paul said, "Let every person be subject to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and those that exist have been instituted by God." That means God is the one who puts leaders in their positions. The president, the governor, the mayor, the police officer, and the judge all have their jobs because God allows it. Even when a leader is not a Christian, God still uses them to keep things running smoothly.
Paul said that when we obey our leaders, we are actually obeying God. If someone fights against the government, they are fighting against what God has put in place. Paul warned that people who rebel against authority will bring judgment on themselves. That does not mean we must obey a leader who tells us to sin. But it does mean we should respect the position they hold.
Paul explained that leaders are God's servants for our good. They are like shepherds who watch over the flock. They carry out justice and punish those who do wrong. They protect people who do what is right. When a police officer stops a bad person from hurting others, that officer is doing God's work. When a judge makes a fair decision, that judge is serving God's purpose.
Paul also told the Romans to pay their taxes. He said, "For because of this you also pay taxes, for the authorities are ministers of God, attending to this very thing." The money we pay to the government helps pay for roads, schools, police, firefighters, and many other things that keep our communities safe and strong. Paul said we should give to everyone what we owe: taxes to whom taxes are owed, revenue to whom revenue is owed, respect to whom respect is owed, and honor to whom honor is owed.
Paul wanted the Roman Christians to understand something important. Following Jesus does not mean we stop caring about our government. In fact, caring about our government means we pray for our leaders and obey the laws that do not go against God's commands. We show respect to people in authority because God put them there. We pay our taxes because that helps our community. We are good citizens of our country while we are also citizens of heaven.
This teaching from Romans 13 helps us see that God is in control of everything, even the leaders of our country. When we obey our leaders, we are showing that we trust God's plan. When we respect the police officer, the teacher, or the principal, we are honoring God. And when we pay our taxes and follow the rules, we are doing what is right in God's eyes.
A Curious Question
Why does God want us to obey the people in charge, even when we do not always agree with them or like their rules?
Old Testament Connection
Long before Paul wrote to the Romans, God's people in the Old Testament had to learn about respecting authority. When the Israelites were slaves in Egypt, God raised up Moses to lead them out. God used Moses to speak to Pharaoh, the most powerful ruler on earth. Later, God gave His people the Ten Commandments, which included honoring parents and respecting others in authority.
In the book of Daniel, Daniel and his friends lived under foreign kings who did not know God. They respected the kings' authority, but when the king made a law that forced them to sin, they chose to obey God instead. They trusted that God was the ultimate authority over all rulers. This points forward to Jesus, who is the King of all kings. Jesus obeyed His heavenly Father perfectly, even when earthly leaders like Pilate and Herod did not understand. Jesus showed us that ultimate authority belongs to God, and He calls us to respect the leaders He places over us while always putting God first.
Discussion Questions
- Paul said leaders are "God's servants for your good." What are some ways that leaders like teachers, police officers, and parents help keep us safe and do good things for us?
- What should we do if a leader tells us to do something that is clearly wrong or against God's commands? How can we show respect while still saying no to sin?
- Why do you think God chose to use people (even imperfect ones) to lead others instead of just ruling everyone directly from heaven?
So What? What Can I Do?
- This week, pray every morning for your teacher, principal, pastor, and parents. Ask God to help them lead wisely and kindly.
- When you feel like complaining about a rule or a leader, stop and think about how God might be using that person to protect you or teach you something important.
- Show honor to the people in charge by using kind words, following directions the first time, and saying "thank you" to police officers, crossing guards, and other helpers in your community.
- Talk to your family about the taxes your parents pay and how that money helps your town or city run smoothly. Thank God for roads, libraries, and parks that taxes provide.
Memorize God's Word
"Let every person be subject to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and those that exist have been instituted by God." — Romans 13:1
• Let every person point to everyone around you with both hands.
• be subject to the governing authorities bow your head and lower your hands to show respect.
• For there is no authority shake your head no and hold up your open palms.
• except from God point both index fingers straight up toward heaven.
• and those that exist spread your arms wide to show all the leaders everywhere.
• have been instituted by God cup your hands together like you are receiving a gift from heaven.
Praying with Kids
Dear Father, thank You for putting leaders in charge to keep our world safe and orderly. Help us to respect our teachers, parents, police officers, and government leaders. Give them wisdom to make good decisions. Help us to be good citizens who honor You in everything we do. And when we face hard choices, give us courage to obey You first. In Jesus' name, amen.
Craft or Activity
Respect Chain of Honor
Materials Checklist:
How to Make the Respect Chain of Honor:
- Cut construction paper into strips about 2 inches wide and 8 inches long. Each child needs at least 10 strips.
- On each strip, write the name of a leader you want to honor (for example: "Mom," "Teacher," "Police Officer," "Pastor," "Principal," "Mayor," "President," "Firefighter").
- On the back of each strip, write one way you can show respect to that leader this week (for example: "Say thank you," "Follow directions," "Pray for them," "Be kind," "Do my homework").
- Form a paper chain by gluing or stapling the first strip into a circle. Loop the next strip through the first circle and glue or staple it closed. Continue until all your strips are connected into a long chain.
- Hang your Respect Chain of Honor somewhere you will see it every day, like your bedroom door or the fridge. Let it remind you to pray for and honor the leaders God has placed in your life.
Effective Teaching Techniques
For Younger Children: Focus on the leaders they see every day: parents, teachers, and crossing guards. Use simple examples like "When your teacher asks you to line up, God wants you to obey." Keep the discussion concrete and personal.
For Older Kids: Challenge them to think about difficult situations where obeying a leader might be hard. Discuss what it looks like to disagree respectfully and how to pray for leaders they do not agree with. Introduce the concept of civil disobedience (obeying God first) with examples like Daniel and the early Christians.
Prep Shortcut: Pre-cut paper strips ahead of time to save time during the craft portion. Write the leaders' names on a whiteboard for younger children to copy if needed.
Classroom Management: Before the craft, have a quick "respect race" where you call out different leaders and kids show the hand motion for respect (bowing head and lowering hands) to keep them engaged and focused.