God's Spirit Makes Us His Own Dear Children Forever
(Romans 8:12-17)
Have you ever seen a man fall into a deep, dark pit and not be able to get out by himself? He might try to jump and climb, but the walls are too slippery and high. He needs a strong rope thrown down to pull him up. That's a little bit like what the Apostle Paul is teaching us in his letter to the Romans. Paul is writing to Christians in Rome, and he is helping them understand something very important about who they are now that they believe in Jesus.
Paul tells them, "So then, brothers and sisters, we are in debt. But we are not in debt to our old sinful selves. We do not have to live the way our sinful selves want us to live." Paul is using a picture that everyone in the Roman world would understand. He is talking about a debt. A debt is something you owe. If you owe someone money, you have to pay it back. Paul says that before we knew Jesus, we were slaves to sin. Sin was like a cruel master. It told us what to do, and we obeyed. We were in debt to our old, sinful nature. It controlled us. It was like being at the bottom of that deep, dark pit, and there was no way to climb out.
But then Paul says something amazing. He says, "But if you live by your sinful self, you are going to die. But if by the Spirit you put to death the wrong things the body wants to do, you will live." This is a different way to live! It's no longer about trying hard to be good on your own. It's about a new power. Paul calls this power the Spirit. God's Spirit is like a strong rope thrown down into our pit. When we believe in Jesus, God gives us His Spirit to live inside us. The Spirit helps us say "no" to the wrong things our bodies want to do. The Spirit gives us the power to live in a way that makes God happy.
Paul says this is what it means to be a child of God. He writes, "Those who are led by the Spirit of God are the children of God." This is a new identity! The Spirit doesn't make us scared slaves. He makes us sons and daughters. Paul says we can call God "Abba, Father." "Abba" is a special, close word. It's like saying "Daddy" or "Papa." It means we have a close and loving relationship with God. We are not slaves who are scared of a mean master. We are children who love a kind and powerful Father.
Then Paul shares a wonderful promise. He says, "The Spirit himself joins with our spirit and tells us that we are God's children. And since we are his children, we are going to receive what he has promised for his children. We will receive everything he has promised. We will share with Christ in all the things God has given him." This is incredible news! Because we are God's children, we get to share in God's inheritance. An inheritance is like a family treasure. Because Jesus is God's Son, everything that belongs to the Father belongs to Him. And because we are joined with Jesus, we get to share in that treasure, too. Paul says we also share in Christ's sufferings, but that suffering will lead to glory. It's like a seed that has to be buried in the dark ground before it can grow into a beautiful, strong plant. Our hard times now are not the end of the story. One day, we will share in Jesus' glory, and we will live with Him forever.
Paul wants every believer to know this truth. We are not orphans. We are not slaves. We are children of the living God, loved and cared for by our Father. We have been rescued from the pit of sin. We have the Spirit inside us, giving us power to live for God. And the best part is that this is a promise that will last forever. We are God's children, and He will never let us go.
A Curious Question
Why does Paul say the Holy Spirit inside us is like a voice that tells our spirit we are God's children, instead of just making us feel it automatically on our own?
Old Testament Connection
When Paul tells us that because of Jesus, we are no longer slaves, but children who can call God "Abba, Father," he is connecting us to a huge story that started way back in the Old Testament. God made a special promise to Abraham. He said, "I will be your God, and you will be my people." That promise was for Abraham and his family. But for a long time, God's people kept breaking their promises to Him. They couldn't stay faithful on their own. They were like slaves to their sin. But then Jesus came. Jesus is the perfect Son of God. He did everything right. He never sinned. And when Jesus died on the cross and rose again, He made a way for everyone who believes in Him to become part of God's family. Jesus is like the big brother who made the way for all His little brothers and sisters to come home. Because of what Jesus did, we are not just servants of God; we are His adopted children. The Holy Spirit is the proof, the seal, that we truly belong to God's family, just as the promises to Abraham were sealed with a sign. This is the New Covenant that God promised through the prophet Jeremiah—He would write His law on our hearts and we would be His people. Jesus made that promise come true!
Discussion Questions
- Paul says we are not slaves but children. What is the difference between how a slave feels about his master and how a child feels about a good father?
- The Spirit helps us say "no" to wrong things. Can you think of a time when you felt the Spirit helping you make a good choice instead of a bad one?
- What does it mean to you that you get to share in Jesus' "inheritance"? What kind of treasure do you think God has in store for His children?
So What? What Can I Do?
- Listen for the Spirit's voice. When you have a choice to make today, take a quiet moment and ask God to help you. The Spirit is like a gentle guide, showing you the right way to go. Does the choice you want to make feel like something a child of God would do?
- Use your new name. You are not just a kid from your town or school. You are a child of God! When you feel sad or scared, remember that you have a powerful Father who loves you. You can talk to Him like a daddy. You can say, "Abba, Father, please help me."
- Say thank you. Because of Jesus, you are part of God's family. That's a gift you didn't earn. Think of three things today that you are thankful for and tell God, "Thank you for being my Father."
Memorize God's Word
Romans 8:15
"The Spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear again; rather, the Spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship. And by him we cry, 'Abba, Father.'"
• The Spirit you received place both hands over your heart.
• does not make you slaves shake your head "no" and make an "X" with your forearms.
• so that you live in fear again wrap your arms around yourself and shiver like you are scared.
• rather, the Spirit you received point to heaven, then bring your hands back to your heart.
• brought about your adoption to sonship make a big scooping motion with both arms, pulling them in toward you.
• And by him we cry, "Abba, Father" cup your hands around your mouth and call upward like you are talking to your dad.
Praying with Kids
Dear Father, thank You for making us Your children. Thank You for sending Your Spirit to live in our hearts and help us follow You. Please help us to remember that we do not have to be slaves to sin, and that we can always come to You and call You our Father. We love You. In Jesus' name, Amen.
Craft or Activity
Adoption Certificate & Shield
How to Make the Adoption Certificate & Shield:
- Fold a piece of cardstock in half to make a card that looks like a document or certificate.
- On the front, write in big letters: "I AM A CHILD OF GOD!"
- Inside, write the memory verse from Romans 8:15. Decorate the page with stickers.
- On the back, create a "shield" shape. Draw or color a big shield.
- Inside the shield, write words that describe your new identity in Christ: "Adopted," "Loved," "Free," "Not a Slave."
- You can cut out your shield and wear it with a piece of yarn, or keep it in your Bible as a reminder of who you are in Jesus.
Effective Teaching Techniques
For Younger Children: Focus heavily on the idea of "Abba, Father." Have them practice saying it. Bring in a picture of a strong, loving father to help them connect the concept. Simplify the "debt" part by just talking about being stuck in a pit and needing a rope.
Prep Shortcut: Print out a template for the adoption certificate. Have the verse and the main point already written on it, so the kids just need to color and add their name. This saves time and keeps the focus on the meaning.
Classroom Management: When discussing the Spirit's help, share a simple, relatable scenario like being tempted to cheat in a game or being unkind. Ask them, "What would the Spirit want you to do?" and have them shout out answers. This keeps them engaged.