Paul's Emotional Farewell to the Ephesians
(Acts 20)
Have you ever had to say goodbye to someone you really loved? Maybe a friend moved away, or a grandparent went home after a visit. That kind of goodbye can make your heart feel heavy. In our story today, the Apostle Paul had to say a very hard goodbye to people he loved deeply.
Paul was on a big journey. He wanted to get to Jerusalem in time for a special feast called Pentecost. But he also wanted to see his friends one last time. So he made a plan. He sailed past the city of Ephesus, but he didn't stop there. He knew if he went into the city, he would be delayed and miss his ship. Instead, he sent a message to the leaders of the church in Ephesus. He asked them to come meet him at the nearby town of Miletus.
When the church leaders arrived, Paul had a very serious talk with them. He reminded them of all the time he had spent with them. He said, "You know how I lived among you. I served the Lord with great humility and with tears. I taught you publicly and from house to house. I told everyone—both Jews and Greeks—to turn to God and to have faith in our Lord Jesus."
Paul explained that he was going to Jerusalem, and he didn't know what would happen to him there. He said, "The Holy Spirit warns me that prison and hardships are waiting for me. But I don't care about my own life. My only goal is to finish the race and complete the job the Lord Jesus gave me—to tell people about God's grace."
Then Paul warned the leaders to be careful. He told them to protect the church, which God had purchased with the blood of his own Son. He said, "I know that after I leave, savage wolves will come in among you. They won't spare the flock. Even some of your own people will rise up and twist the truth to draw away followers."
Paul was like a loving father giving his children final instructions. He said, "Remember, for three years I never stopped warning each of you night and day with tears. Now I give you to God's care and to the message of his grace. That message is powerful enough to build you up and give you a place among all the people who are set apart for God."
Then Paul knelt down with all of them and prayed. It was a very emotional moment. The Bible says they all wept as they hugged him and kissed him. What made them most sad was when Paul said they would never see his face again. They walked with him to the ship, and their hearts were broken. But they knew Paul was following God's plan, even though it was hard.
Acts 20 shows us a man who loved Jesus more than anything. Paul was brave. He was willing to face pain and prison just to tell people about Jesus. He also loved his friends deeply. He taught them, warned them, and then trusted God to take care of them. This story is a powerful reminder of how much God loves us and how we can love others with the same kind of strong, faithful love.
A Curious Question
Paul said he didn't care about his own life because he wanted to finish the job Jesus gave him. What is the most important job or mission God has given to you right now, and how does it feel to know God trusts you with it?
Old Testament Connection
Paul's mission to preach the gospel to everyone was rooted in God's Promises from the Old Testament. God told Abraham that all nations would be blessed through his family. Paul was bringing that Prophecy to life by telling everyone—Jew and Greek—about Jesus. Also, Paul's warning about false teachers connects to Old Testament prophets like Jeremiah, who constantly warned God's people to stay faithful and not listen to lies. The entire story shows how the Abrahamic Covenant was being fulfilled as the good news spread to the ends of the earth.
Discussion Questions
- Why do you think Paul was willing to go to Jerusalem even though he knew hard times were waiting for him?
- Paul told the leaders to be careful and protect the church. What are some ways we can protect and care for our church family today?
- How does it make you feel to know that Paul's message about God's grace is the same message we still believe in today?
So What? What Can I Do?
- Is there a hard thing God might be asking you to do, like forgiving someone or being brave to share your faith? How can you follow Paul's example of courage?
- Who are the people God has put in your life to teach and care for, like your family or friends at church? How can you show them love and help them follow Jesus?
- Paul trusted God to take care of his friends after he left. What is something you need to trust God to take care of today?
Memorize God's Word
Acts 20:24
"But I do not account my life of any value nor as precious to myself, if only I may finish my course and the ministry that I received from the Lord Jesus, to testify to the gospel of the grace of God."
• But I do not account my life point to yourself, then shake your head and wave your hand as if saying "no."
• of any value nor as precious to myself hold out your hands like you are weighing something, then drop them to show it doesn't matter.
• if only I may finish my course make a running motion with your arms like you are sprinting to a finish line.
• and the ministry that I received from the Lord Jesus point up to heaven, then cup your hands together as if receiving a gift.
• to testify to the gospel of the grace of God cup your hands around your mouth like you are shouting good news, then open your arms wide.
Praying with Kids
Dear Father, thank you for the brave example of Paul. Please help us to love you more than anything else. Give us courage to do the hard things you ask us to do and to tell others about Jesus. Please take care of our church family and help us love each other like Paul loved his friends. We trust you with our whole lives. In Jesus' name, Amen.
Craft or Activity
Encouragement Cards for Church Leaders
Materials Needed:
How to Make the Encouragement Cards:
- Fold your paper or card in half to make a card shape.
- On the front, draw a picture of a ship or a waving hand to remember Paul's journey.
- On the inside, write a message to encourage a church leader, like your pastor or Sunday School teacher. You can write, "Thank you for teaching us about God's grace," or "I am praying for you."
- Decorate your card with stickers and colorful designs.
- Give your card to a church leader to encourage them, just like Paul encouraged his friends.
Effective Teaching Techniques
For Younger Children: Focus on the emotional aspect of the story. Use your voice to show how sad the goodbye was, but also how brave Paul was. Let them share about a time they said a hard goodbye.
Prep Shortcut: Before class, cut the paper or cards into the correct size so kids can start decorating right away. Have a sample card already made to show as an example.
Classroom Management: During the discussion, use a talking stick or ball. The child holding the item gets to speak, which helps everyone listen and take turns.
For Older Kids: Challenge them to write a longer, more detailed letter on their card. Encourage them to include a specific Bible verse they think their leader needs to hear, just like Paul gave specific warnings and encouragement.